Cherisa Pearce
~ On the Canvas Of Service, 2023
Nothing military, right? that’s my happily ever after
Major (MAJ) Ret’d
Australian Army
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She said it with a grin, but the clarity was sharp. Not a rejection—just a boundary. She wasn’t erasing anything. She was choosing how to carry it. That line stayed with me longer than I expected.
We met just after first light. The beach was still soft with silence, the kind you only get when the day is beginning. She was already moving—board under arm, sand between her toes, energy unforced. I’d never met a veteran like her. I thought I was there to take a portrait. What I left with was something else entirely.
She spoke about growing up in a household where service wasn’t questioned—it was expected. Her mum had been an army nurse, her dad a medic back from Vietnam. Her brother joined young. She followed too—not out of purpose, but pattern. “My life was so boring compared to his. I said I could do one better than him, so I went to RMC.” She smiled, then softened. “I was a terrible cadet… it wasn’t my passion.”
There was no bitterness in her story, just honesty. “My transition wasn’t perfect, but I made it better because I wasn’t going to be a statistic, a number, or a victim.” The way she said it—clear, unshaken—made the silence around her feel earned.
She talked about structure, about people who helped her rebuild it. “Find your people and let them help you. Don’t lose the structure.” Then she spoke about surfing—how it taught her to wait. How it taught her to breathe.
With Cherisa, there wasn’t one defining moment. Her story unfolded slowly, like tide pulling back to reveal what was always there. She didn’t fight to be free. She chose to be.
And that, truly, is her happily ever after.
© All rights reserved. Based on extracts from: Jenani Therone, Of Service, Australia: Harvest Publishing by House of JT, 2024, pages 79 – 84.
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